Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Tea is Romantic!?!

Last week, I mentioned that I wanted to try something different for my hubby and my 25th wedding anniversary. . So I got some ideas from the internet that I posted for a special "tea for two" romantic tea party. Now I think most men would usually balk at the thought of an anniversary/romantic tea. In all honesty, I wasn't sure how mine would respond. First of all, he's more of a coffee drinker (even though he has poured a cup or two of herbal tea for a sore throat or digestive issues.) Secondly, even though he has occasionally surprised me with some flowers, dinner, or a card. . . he's not super-gifted in the romance department (though I know he's better than most men, from what I hear).

So, I quickly gathered items from around my house together and set up a little “tea table area”  by the fireplace. I didn’t have a lot of time to cook something sweet, so I decided to make some “white chocolate” pudding, in a graham cracker crust, a little peanut butter/mixed with powdered sugar till crumbly that was sprinkled on the crust, and finally a cherry on top. I put these in little disposable decorative cups. I found some tea that sounded really romantic, Lipton’s “Harvest Strawberry and Passion Fruit” tea. I also bought a few little Valentine decorations to make some finishing touches. And here the results –

 I just used some sticky letters I had from my scrapbooking stuff and my white teapot became romantic.
 Ken and I have traditionally bought each other little stuffed animals on past anniversaries/Valentines Days. He's my monkey man. . .
 And I get a little 'froggy' for him!
 Here is the tea we had . . .I loved the little triangle teabags. . .
 Used heart mugs to drink our tea from and watched the fire. . .notice the glare off the glass, reflecting one of our heads in the window behind us.
 Romance was achieved!!
 I hadn’t mentioned my plans to Ken, so when he came home from work that day, he was very surprised. I even played some romantic music and had him close his eyes and walked him into the room. We had some tea and dessert (yes, before dinner). We talked and held hands. Before we knew it, we were both feeling VERY romantic (and more, but we won’t go there.) Needless to say, I think my “romantic tea for two” was a success. Now, I can’t guarantee that your “man” will respond the same way.  But, I do know one thing. I’m doing this again!!! 

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14 comments:

  1. Hi Ann - what a lovely idea. Being that its valentine's day soon, great reminder to start thinking more deliberately about it :)
    God bless
    Tracy

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    1. Thanks, Tracy. I know, just one week away!! Where did January go?

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  2. What a wonderful party that must have been! Yep...most men aren't into tea for romance, but my DH, as a Brit, knows tea parties and even takes me to some! I'm so glad it was a success! Thanks for sharing your special tea party and linking to Tuesday Cuppa Tea!
    Ruth

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    1. Thanks for stopping by, Ruth! I'm sure over the years you learned a lot about tea, with a Brit husband! How fun!!

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  3. Hi Ann,
    thank you for stopping by and leving that nice comment. So I found your blog. Your story is so sweet. Congratulation to the 25th wedding anniversary. Your idea to make a romantic tea is fabulous. I bet, he did know in this moment, what a wonderful wife he has. So sweet that it was a great success. Wish you many of those romantic moments with your hubby.
    Best greetings, Johanna

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  4. Oh Ann! That's beautiful! I think what makes it the most romantic for men is when we do something especially for them...So, your planning and scene setting must have truly made him feel loved! Thanks for sharing this great idea as well as telling us about your special evening!

    God bless! Joan

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    1. I agree, Joan! It's amazing how our husbands respond when we give them our love, time, and energy!!!

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  5. Ah men!
    Your tea is lovely and you are a very dear wife indeed! My hubby does not drink tea very often. But my son really appreciates a good cup of tea! I think it is because he has some wonderful British friends who have taught him well.
    Thank you so much for sharing your special tea.
    Hugs,
    Terri

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    1. Hi, Terri! Thanks for your wonderful comments! I have a son the same way. He went to a 7-week school program this past summer, where one of his roommates was from England. The roommate drank "English Tea" only every day and introduced it to my son. Now that's all he drinks.

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  6. Hi Joan: What a wonderful way to celebrate love! Thank you for sharing it with us. Hugs, Martha

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  7. Hi Ann,
    Your tea sounds perfect! Tea in front of the fire is very romantic and I think most men would appreciate it. I know mine always does. Here's to many more romantic moments and Happy Anniversary! Thanks for sharing.

    Blessings,
    Sandi

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    1. Thanks, Sandi! I always appreciate your wonderful comments!

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  8. Hi Ann, congratulations on your anniversary. What a beautiful, romantic blog. Good for you for setting the stage. Even better, he was receptive. Thanks for sharing. I have recently found your blog and am now following you, and will visit often. Please stop by my blog and perhaps you would like to follow me also. Have a wonderful day. Hugs, Chris
    http://chelencarter-retiredandlovingit.blogspot.com/

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  9. I'm so glad you found me, Chris. Thanks so much for leaving a comment and following my blog. I look forward to checking out your blog, as well. Thanks, also, for the anniversary comments. Blessings to you.

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