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2018: Some Unexpected Changes, While Other Hopes for Change were Unfulfilled

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It's hard to believe, but another Christmas has come and gone. I pray your Christmas was full of love and blessings. I'm so thankful ours was uneventful(a large family gathering and a small Christmas Eve meal), but also a little sad... 2018 is almost over... Where did another year go?  I had planned on writing many more posts this year, but it just didn't happen. My word for this year was "change". Yes, I admit, there were several things that brought change for me in 2018...some were good, many were very difficult.  Other changes that were anticipated never occurred.  I'm realizing that's real life, though. It brings lots of  surprises, followed by numerous disappointments.  But, it's just been one year out of many. The truth is, the best any of us can do in this life is just do our best and trust God for the rest. As I think back over 2018, I know I am blessed with changes that I have experienced!!... I have my son...

Painful Change

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"Growth is painful. Change is painful. But, nothing is as painful as staying stuck where you do not belong." N. R. Narayana Murthy Normally, I am quite open to change, and even welcome it over doing the same things, over and over again. Especially when I have patiently waited for an answer to a specific prayer, the change the Lord has brought about to answer my prayer produces an overwhelming gratefulness and joy in my soul!  For the past 25 years (but more deeply in the past 8 years), I have prayed over a specific change in the life of a loved one. Throughout these years, God has allowed me and my family to go through some amazing, but mostly tumultuous times. (If you have read my past blog posts, you may have read about some of those times.) My prayer has been to bring my loved one home...and u ltimately, back into having a relationship with the Lord.  Recently, the Lord answered the first half of my prayer. Of course, I was overjoyed! It was a big step that o...

Eleven Words, One Theme: Change in 2018

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https://wordart.com/ Happy 2018!! I have been contemplating a word for the new year ahead. But, as in the past, it seems like there have been several different words that have gotten my attention. After breaking my list of words down to 8, I constructed a "word cloud" above. Though there are several words, one word is central to me... CHANGE Change is inevitable in life. More importantly, I see change being a bigger part of my life this year, more than ever.  Throughout the year, I will be posting about each of these words and what they mean to me, especially as I consider how God is using them to mold me. To go along with each word, I am sharing a Bible verse, as well. Change/Prepare - " This same Good  New s that came to you is going out all over the world. It is bearing fruit everywhere by changing lives, just as it  change d your lives from the day you first heard and understood the truth about God’s wonderful grace."  Colossians 1...

2017: Purpose In Each Detail of Life

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Well, another year is coming to an end. As I reminisce over the past 12 months, I think about the ways in which my word for 2017 (PURPOSE) has helped me look at my life from a new perspective. So much of my circumstances have been beyond my control, yet I found myself being emotionally controlled by them.  I have learned a lot about other people and have tried to understand why they may do what they do or say what they say. I have learned to stand strong when I have had to make an extremely difficult decision, not being influenced by unwarranted guilt,  sympathy, or a desire for a closer relationship, but to do what is best for me. I have learned that, as I look into the past and the future, both have a purpose and hopefully each continues to shape and grow me in a more positive way. Life definitely isn't all peaches and cream. Much of the time, I don't even understand why things happen the way they do. But, because God is in control, I must just do the be...

How To Find Your Purpose: Everyone's Got An Answer

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It's mind-blowing to me, as I strive to seek what our purpose(and more specifically MY purpose) is, how many people say they have THE answer....and literally dozens of different answers are given. Yet, so many times any one answer leaves me hanging(often sending me into a spiral of more questioning and confusion.) The 3A's: Creating a Purposeful Life Through Attention, Acceptance & Authenticity 7 STRANGE QUESTIONS THAT HELP YOU FIND YOUR LIFE PURPOSE Life on Purpose: 15 Questions to Discover Your Personal Mission   Six Ways To Discover Your Life Purpose 3 Unexpected Ways to Find Your Life Purpose 4 Ways to Find Passion and Purpose in Your Life “The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.”  ―  Ralph Waldo Emerson “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach ...