Monday, September 16, 2013

Can Joy and Pain Collide?

This past weekend, I had some extra time to think about and ponder all that I need to be grateful for. I even started a Pinterest Board on the subject of being thankful, called A Thousand Little(and Big)Things. Feel free to check it out!
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I try to be thankful and live joyfully every day, for all that God blesses me with in my life, but many times I get caught up in the day's activities and miss the mark. So today I thought I would give God time in thanksgiving...

Then something tragic happened to some old high school classmates of mine that rocked my grateful world!! Their 20-year old son went missing! My heart dropped and I felt their awful pain and fear! 

My first thought was, "what if that would happen to my son?" (I texted my son today, just to make sure he was o.k.... and he was.)

Then, I prayed and prayed for this young man and his parents! 

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This is the heart-wrenching fear of every parent, no matter how old their child is!  I'm sure a million questions are running through their minds today! 
  • Where is he, Lord? Is he o.k.?
  • Why won't You bring him home to us?
  • How can You let us go through such pain and heartache? 
  • If he is o.k., why would he do this to us?
  • What are we supposed to do?
This is one of those times that being grateful, for these two parents, has to be nearly impossible. Even for me, today- my joy is hindered by the news. 

How do we find joy and gratefulness in times like this? 

Can true joy and pain collide, like a crazy roller-coaster ride- that makes you scream, but also makes you want to be sick?

Or even like a woman in labor, who suffers great pain, yet with joy and anticipation, awaits the birth of her newborn child.
Joy and pain are but two arteries of the one heart that pumps through those who don't number themselves to really living. 
Maybe it's not so much joy that I hope they find, but peace....in the midst of the chaos and heartbreak. Calming their hearts and trusting God to be with them and to help them find their son as soon as possible. 

I'm praying....praying for answers to the questions.
                   ....praying for protection for this young man.
                     ....praying for the Lord to bring peace and  
                                             comfort for these parents.  

So, today I am grateful for so many things! And yet, at the same time, I'm so very sad and my heart aches!! Will all my bloggy friends please hold them up in prayer, as well?   
Linking over at  "Multitude on Mondays".
1,479 - Even when I wasn't feeling well, finding solace in the Lord, who is my all-encompassing Healer!
1,480 - Having tea with fresh peppermint leaves, shared by a friend and neighbor.
1,481 - Some cooler weather, even though I am sad to see the warm summer nights become less and less.
1,482 - A sunny day, to sit out on my swing by the lake and read God's Word and journal.
1,483 - Having my weekly lunch with my dear friend and mentor, Marg!
1,484 - Even though I'm feeling a bit confused right now, trusting that God has a plan with the job situation that was offered to me a few weeks ago. (I thought I had made a decision, but the final decision hasn't been made, yet.)
1,485 - Finding things to be thankful for(joy) in the midst of pain.
1,486 - That they were able to find Alex's phone.
1,487 - Seeing how many friends, family, and caring people surrounded this family.
1,489 - Realizing this:
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1,490 - The latest update, this evening...my friends received a text from a different cell phone, saying it was Alex, that he was o.k. and that he loved them, but that he just needed to be away from everyone for awhile.
1,491 - That my son is healthy and well!
1,492 - Love(God's love) produces all of these things in our hearts:
 #Love what is it? Pain joy weakness

Monday, September 9, 2013

The Joy of the Lord

Another lovely week has flown by. 
Oh, how I absolutely love summer! 
And yet, I know all too soon, that the beautiful colors and smells of autumn will be here. 
 So, I try to soak up every last minute of this season!
And I try to find joy in the little things, as well as the big.
 And give thanks, once again for so many wonderful gifts that God chooses to bring into my life! 
Linking over at  "Multitude on Mondays".
1,466 - Finding peace over a decision I made to NOT take a position that was offered to me at my work.
1,467 - Visiting a historical nature site near our home.
1,468 - Watching complete strangers getting married in the public gardens that we were visiting.
1,469 - Thinking about how far my hubby and I have come over the past several months in our relationship...
1,470 - One of the best things that has happened is having a regular prayer time together, that has continued!!
1,471 - Walking through a lush garden! 
1,472 - The beauty in the detail of a flower!
1,473 -  A little "friend" scurrying through the woods, took a minute to stop and say "hello". 
1,474 -  Enjoying my birthday with my hubby, who took the day off to be with me.
1,475 -  So many friends and family, who wished me a happy birthday! Feeling loved!
1,476 - Getting a cute homemade birthday card from my hubby...which is extremely rare and precious to me!
1,477 - A phone call from my step daughter.
 1,478 - Letting the joy of the Lord strengthen me each day! 
  • When I am weary and tired.
  • When I feel sad.
  • When I want to give up.
  • When I wrestle with hurt feelings.
  • When I become angry and resentful.
  • When I know I need to seek God...    
Praying you also find strength through the joy of the Lord!!
Also linking over to these blog hops:
Heart Reflected Blog Hop 

Sunday, September 8, 2013

Why We Celebrate Birthdays

I've been reading different online posts about birthdays and I'm finding out that birthdays are celebrated (and are NOT celebrated) for several different reasons.
First, I'll address why some people DON'T celebrate birthdays:
  1.  Obviously, if someone doesn't like the thought of getting older, they might avoid birthday celebrations every approaching year. To me, this is kinda ridiculous! Why pretend like or run away from something that everyone on this earth has and will experience...aging? It's a part of life. Get over it!
  2.  Some take the religious stance that celebrating one's birthday is sac-religious, because of certain scriptures from the Bible, where there were pagan situations. (Read Here) But there is nothing in the Bible that indicates that the celebration of birthdays is wrong, in itself.

Now, I'll discuss why many people DO celebrate birthdays:
I came across this list and thought it was kinda cute.     
12 Most Meaningful Reasons to Celebrate a Birthday:

1. You still have one - It’s confirmation you have another day on this Earth to live and love.

2. Wisdom really does come with age - I am so glad that I don’t have to make again the bloopers I made in my teens, twenties or even thirties.

3. Self confidence also comes with age - Young confidence is sometimes hard to separate from arrogance. But seasoned confidence is subtler, more assured than arrogant (for most folks, anyway).

4. Accomplishments really rack up - The older you get, the more you’ve done. Take stock of your life and give yourself a huge pat on the back. You’ve done a lot!

5. You’ve figured out the shortcuts - For the things you love to do, you probably don’t even realize the depth of your mastery. But with years of practice comes true skill. For instance, I rarely use recipes to cook, I know how to soothe a baby without looking in a book for clues and the garden in front of our house is thriving with just me as its caretaker.

6. Love - Whether you’ve been with your partner a long time, or not, you’ve no doubt loved intensely at some point in your life. Aging means you’ve had more time to love and more opportunities and people to love. That’s wonderful!

7. Treats - Who said only the kids get to munch on birthday food? I treated myself to a wonderful chocolate croissant this morning for my birthday. And I didn’t feel one second of guilt.

8. Facebook - The older you get the more friends you have from different phases of your life — from grade school and on, through the different schools you’ve attended, jobs you’ve held, groups you’ve joined and cities you’ve lived in. Chances are those folks are sprinkled through your collection of Facebook(and bloggy) friends. And when birthdays roll around, many of them send messages and cheery tidings of good wishes. It’s a daylong dose of happiness from people throughout your life. Pretty cool, if you ask me.

9. You reflect on where you’ve been and where you’re going - I think this is good thing. When you’re young, you merely celebrate birthdays. After you’ve put some real miles on your tires — so to speak — you can appreciate the journey. And you don’t take things for granted, as you tend to do without that perspective.

10. Silliness - It’s a day that no one is going to mind if you sing, blow bubbles, dance or just giggle a lot. You can be kid. But you can enjoy that like a grownup.

11. Being grateful - In our younger years, we might whine when we don’t get the gift we want. Or, when something else disappoints us that seems like a big deal to our childhood selves. With maturity, we know how to put those things in perspective. We know what’s trivial and what really matters.

12. Cake - Birthday cake is still one of the very best things about birthdays, no matter how many you’ve had.


For me, celebrating birthdays reminds me that:
  1. I was fearfully and wonderfully made by my Creator!(Psalm 139:13 (NIV)"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.")
  2. I am a child of God, chosen and loved specifically by Him.(James 1:18 (NIV) "He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created.")
  3. I am alive and His child and He gives me the ability to do all I am able to do every day.       (Acts 17:28 "For in him we live and move and have our being.' As some of your own poets have said, 'We are his offspring.")
  4. He gives me purpose and has a plan for my life.    (Ephesians 2:10 (NIV) "For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.")
  5. Finally, I love this verse from The Message   Micah 6:8,  "But He’s already made it plain how to live, what to do, what God is looking for in men and women. It’s quite simple: Do what is fair and just to your neighbor, be compassionate and loyal in your love, And don’t take yourself too seriously – take God seriously."                                             
Obviously, my focus on birthdays probably has you wondering if my own birthday is upon me. Well, you are correct. Not only my birthday (Sept. 9), though. August and September seems to bring a large array of birthdays in my family. My hubby's birthday is also in September(5), along with my son-in-law(Sept. 7). In August, we celebrated the birthdays of my step-daughter(Aug. 4), my son(Aug. 13), and grand daughter(Aug. 17). Needless to say we've been doing a lot of celebrating! 

I think about how different my life would be if each of these people in my life would not have been born....how much love and joy I would have missed out on!! 
Love this song by "Point of Grace" that reminds us all that we need to live each day as a blessing and gift from God...
It's not who you knew; it's not what you did; 
"It's How You Live" 
Thank You Jesus, for birthdays!
Linking over to these blog hops:
The Weekend Brew @ My Freshly Brewed Life

Saturday, August 31, 2013

A Trustworthy Saying

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 Hard work in our society, isn't always rewarded.
The person who puts in all the overtime, works the double shift, or works him/herself to the bone is often considered greedy or a brown-nosier. And many times that is the case. If our focus of working hard isn't on pleasing God, then our work is truly in vain. But, when we strive and labor to put our hope in all we do in God, including our jobs, we will be greatly rewarded!
Here is another trustworthy saying (verse) that confirms this thought.

"Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters"  Colossians 3:23 (NIV)
Wishing you all a relaxing and enjoyable Labor Day weekend!

Linking over to these blog hops:
The Weekend Brew @ My Freshly Brewed Life

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

10 Ways to Beat the Heat!

We are at the end of August, my friends. I don't know what the weather is like in your part of the woods, but in my part, things are really heating up. I came upon a list of several ways to beat the heat at home. As I was reading through it, I thought how many of those listed apply also to our spiritual walk with God. I started looking up verses and this is what I came up with. First, I listed the ideas that were given for beating the heat at home, followed by a verse and explination of how we can also work to "beat the heat" of the devil's attack on us, as Christ-followers.

10 Ways to Beat the Heat: 
1) Put Up Sun Blockers: Closing curtains and blinds (ideally with sun-deflecting white on the window side) can reduce the amount of heat that passes into your home by as much as 45 percent, according to the U.S. Department of Energy.
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Eph 6:11 "Put on the whole armour of God, 
that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil."


God has thought of you, and has sent his amour for you; put on the whole amour of God, for each part of your needs to be protected, and you need suitable weapons for assailing all your foes. Then,  you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.


2) Don't Blow Hot Air: Give your A/C some TLC. Clean or replace the filter in room and central air conditioners about once a month during the summer. If you have central air-conditioning, have the ducts checked for leaks, which can reduce a system's efficiency by as much as 15 percent, according to the U.S. Department of Energy.

·       
  Proverbs 21:23 (The Message) "Watch your words and hold your tongue; you'll save yourself a lot of grief."


We have all heard the proverb, "Speech is silver, silence is gold." One who thus takes heed of his words, keepeth his soul from troubles. We all need to keep check of our speech and learn to replace negative words with positive ones.


3) Give a Squirt: Spritz yourself. Keep a spray bottle in the refrigerator, and when the going gets hot, give yourself a good squirt. "It's all about thermal regulation," says John Lehnhardt, an elephant expert at Disney's Animal Kingdom, in Lake Buena Vista, Florida. "As the water evaporates, it cools you."

Acts 1:8 "But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.”



 The Bible tells us that the Spirit of God does many things within us
· helps us in our prayers
· helps us to understand the deep things of God’s Word
· guides us
· teaches us
· AND empowers us
 But most importantly, the Holy Spirit is almost indispensable in our witnessing. The Holy Spirit is the power of God that lies within us. And He can assist in our witnessing: 

  • By guiding us to people we can talk to
  • By giving us boldness to speak to others
  • AND by working in the hearts of those we care about to convict them of their personal sin, their need for righteousness, and the real possibility of the coming judgment.

Guess you could say that a "squirt" of the Holy Spirit's power goes a long ways!!

4) Observe Key Notes: Let your computer take a nap. Set it to go into low-power "sleep" mode if you are away from it for more than 10 minutes and it will give off less heat. When you're finished for the day, shut the machine down completely. Despite what some IT guy may have told you years ago, properly shutting down and restarting modern-day computers won't put undue strain on the hardware. And forget about working with a computer on your lap―it's too darn hot.

·          
Mark 6:31 "And he said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.” For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat."


God Knows You Must Rest to Recuperate; Even in Ministry.


5) Vent a Lot: Run a fan and an air conditioner simultaneously. You can use the air conditioner at lower power and still feel cool if the fan is blowing over you. That's because the air conditioner removes humidity from the air while the fan helps evaporate sweat and moves heat away from your body.

James 2:17  "In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead."
 (vs. 22-23) "You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did. 23 And the scripture was fulfilled that says, "Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness," and he was called God's friend."


   James explained that Abraham's faith, which was active along with his works, and faith was completed by his works; and the Scripture was fulfilled that says, ‘Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousnes. In the same way, if we are going to bear the fruit
we mustn't do it on faith alone, and be destined for failure. To complete faith, our beliefs and actions must work together.


6) Lose the Hot Stuff: Shuck your shoes. As the sweat on your feet evaporates, it cools the skin and the blood in your feet. Blood vessels then whisk that blood to other parts of the body, so "you're getting a greater sensation of coolness," says Donald R. Bohay, M.D., a member of the American Orthopedic Foot & Ankle Society.

·  Two verses came to mind, when I read this:
       
Psalms 55: 22  "Cast thy burden upon the Lord, 
and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved."


Whatever cares, afflictions, trials, etc., that may be with which you are oppressed, lay them upon him.

·          
Ephesians 4:31 "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice."


Here perhaps it signifies, the first offence taken in the mind, against any person, upon any account, which should at once be put away, and not encouraged:


7) Stay Hydrated: Swig often. To replace the moisture that you lose as you perspire, be sure to drink. As you lose water to dehydration, your body temperature rises, so replacing fluids is essential to keeping cool. Avoid beverages that contain alcohol, caffeine, or lots of sugar, which are dehydrating. "Also opt for hydrating foods," says Deena Kastor, a marathon runner and an Olympic bronze medalist.


        John 4:14 "…whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life."


By this water our Lord means also his doctrine, explaining and promising the gifts and graces of the Holy Ghost, which proceed from Jesus Christ their fountain, dwelling in a believing heart. If ever that thirst returns, it will be the fault of the man, not the water. But the water that I shall give him - The spirit of faith working by love, shall become in him - An inward living principle, a fountain.


8) Eat light. There's a reason we reach for salads in the summer. They're easier to digest than, say, a fatty hamburger, which leaves you feeling sluggish in the high heat. Instead, go for fruits and vegetables, which are watery and help keep you hydrated (and cooler), says Robert Kenefick, a physiologist at the U.S. Army Research Institute of Environmental Medicine

        
Galations 5:19-23 "Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law."


The point that Paul is making here is if we are willing to be honest, if we are willing to look at things as they really are and not hide behind clever tricks(fast food), then when we are in the flesh it will be quite obvious to us.(which leaves us feeling sluggish and pulled down) Likewise, if the Spirit is bearing His fruit that too will be obvious; it will not be hard to discover.(feeling energized and refreshed) The difficulty is in being honest, in being willing to examine ourselves.


9) Take Some Dry Measures: Give the clothes dryer a break, too. Hang a clothesline and let your towels and sheets flap in the breeze.


         Psalm 23:2 "He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters."


To lie down in green pastures reminds me of taking time to get out in the fresh air. Take in the smells, sights, and sounds around me. Feel the breeze, (if there is one on a super hot day.) Stick my feet in the water of a stream or lake. 

I'm also reminded of the pure river of water of life Christ leads his sheep to, and gives them to drink freely of: communion with God, which the saints pant after, as the hart pants after the water brooks, and Christ gives access unto.


10) Think Cool: Relax with A Winter's Tale, The Call of the Wild, Doctor Zhivago, or Smilla's Sense of Snow. "Reading about cold can take your mind off the thermometer, evoking one's own experience of ice and snow," says Walter A. Brown, a clinical professor of psychiatry at the medical schools of Brown and Tufts Universities and an expert in the placebo effect.
   
Philippians 4:8-9  "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you." 
    
The apostle Paul offers real answers to the stresses of life. Here he encourages us to “Think about these things,” This means more than a momentary thought. We are to think through these things. We are to ponder them. We are to give them weight. We are to give them value by the time we spend on them.
We are to think how we are going to put these qualities into practice.
Because when we do that, we will be able to follow Paul’s admonition from verse 9. We will be able to consistently practice what we profess. The true peace of God will be ours.
Our hearts and minds will experience calm even in the midst of the most difficult circumstances.(when the heat of hardships are the worst).

Refernces:
http://www.biblestudytools.com/commentaries/
http://www.realsimple.com/work-life/23-ways-to-beat-heat-10000001630362/index.html

Continuing to count my blessings, one by one at   "Multitude on Mondays".
1,456 - The neighbor's field of buffalo...what an amazing animal!

1,457 - Some very nice, sunny days; (prior to the heat)
1,458 - Having dinner on the patio with my hubby.
1,459 - The taste of fresh grilled fish!!
1,460 - God's colorful creation, as seen in this vibrant flower garden!
1,461 - Memories of time spent with my hubby and son...as I look through pictures I had taken.
1,462 - Enjoying the artwork of creative people.
1,463 - The artwork of stained glass and how the sun shining through it makes it so beautiful!
1.464 - The intrinicate lines and shapes of old architecture.
1,465 - Finding a place of peace and quiet, and feeling God's presence there!


Everything is Blooming!!

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