One More Week!!!

  

One more week till it's March!

I am so glad that February is a short month!

It would be so much more difficult for me to get through this cold, dreary month if it were any longer than it is!

  

It also has been a week of many challenges. (Didn't I just say that last week, too?)

We have been helping our son look for a job and housing, as he wants to move out on his own. But we haven't had much success with either, so far. 
Then, on Tuesday he got laid off of his current job. (There was word that they could be laying workers off, but we didn't think it would be this soon.) So, we now need put the job search in full speed.  The weather has been cold, dreary, with icy roads. So, going out is also a challenge. I haven't posted on my blog all week, as I'm struggling to be motivated and write. 

Today, I've decided to take a break from writing on my series, "Ten Ways to Love" and I'm trying to be positive about the weather and circumstances. So, here are some things I'm thankful for -

#1 - There's only one more week till it's March. That means spring is officially just one month away!

#2 - I get to spend a little time with my son before he gets a job and moves, since he currently is living at home.

#3 -

source

I'm also sharing some photos of
some views out my window.

 People - Sledding. . .

 Skating. . .

 Ice fishing . . .

 Ice-cycles

 And my favorite place to be right now. . .inside the house. . . at my computer, with a cup of 
hot tea. Ahhhh :)

 

 "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ." 

(Ephesians 1:3)

I also am linking over to the 

link-up 
and continuing my never-ending list.

 Why I love my husband:

♥ He installed our new window blinds for me the day we got them, even though he was tired from working all day.
♥ Because he works days and I work evenings(part-time), he tries to make it home before I have to go in, just to see me and say "hello and goodbye" in person.
♥ He likes to hold my hand during the church service on Sunday mornings.
 ♥ He's patient and understanding when I'm moody and not feeling well, due to my monthly female issues.
 ♥ He doesn't complain when I ask him to fold/put away his own clothes, after I wash and dry them.

Also linking over to these blog hops:

 Wifey Wednesday @ To Love, Honor and Vacuum
Homemaking Link-Up @ Consider the Lilies

Almost Friday Thursday Blog hop @ Satisfaction Through Christ
Faith Filled Friday @ Missional Women

Ten Ways To Love - #5 & 6: Answer and Share

 
This is the third post in a series I'm writing, called Ten Ways to Love. To read part one, go HERE. For part two, go HERE.

 #5: Answer without Arguing

"Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife." Proverbs 17:1

Sometimes I am amazed at how God describes things in the Bible! He could have gotten straight to the point in this verse and just said, "Don't argue or yell at one another." Instead, He describes two different scenarios. Both involve something we do every day...eat. The first scenario describes having little food that is dry, to top it off. But, those eating it are happy because they are in a peaceful and quiet surrounding. The other scenario described is one of strife and unrest, but those eating have their fill of delicious food. No couple or family members will agree on everything they do, but there is a time and place to address disagreements and I think this verse confirms that "at the dinner table" is NOT that place. And when it is time to talk to one another, we should look back over the other verses on the above list, as we consider how we need to approach disagreements.

 #6: Share without Pretending
 

 "...speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ." Ephesians 4:15

Communication is Important:

 The first principle in communicating in a marriage is to be honest: “speaking the truth.” A satisfying marriage relationship must involve openness and honesty. But, the truth can sometimes be cruel or full of personal opinions.  

That is why the second principle of effective communication is to be loving.

 When we speak, our words should be encouraging, unifying, and Christ-honoring. This implies trying to understand and to love the other person, despite the issue or complaint that is creating dissonance in the relationship. 

  To "speak the truth in love" means to act towards others in ways that help them to grow in Christ and be strengthened. Does this mean that we must simply tolerate wrong ideas or behavior? Is disagreeing always wrong? Absolutely not! However, it does mean that  when we disagree in a marriage, our words must be handled in constructive and redemptive ways. Patterns of healthy conflict resolution and critique should be embedded in the conversation.

Again, considering the other 9 Ways to Love in the list, are vital.

Learning to communicate in a marriage relationship is an ongoing learning experience. I know! Even after 26 years together, my husband and I continue in learning how to communicate better!

 Today, I am listing some more reasons that I love my husband and linking over at the Happy Wives Club  blog hop! My theme today is to use each letter in the word "Valentine" to describe why I love my hubby so much!

Virtuous - He is a man of virtue, as he looks to the Bible as a guide to living out a Christian lifestyle.
Affectionate - He likes holding my hand, cuddling on the couch, and gives lots of kisses.
Logical - When I begin to overreact to a situation (which happens a lot) he will be calm and logically pull me back to looking at things logically.
Exacting- When he does a project around the house, he does it right the first time, no matter how long it takes.
Needs me - Isn't it great to feel needed? He lets me know that he needs me and couldn't make it without me.
Trustworthy- I can trust him to be truthful with me.
Inventive - He's very creative and if something doesn't work, he will create a device that will make it work.
Nasally -  O.K., there aren't many "N" traits that I can find to describe him, but this one kept bringing to mind how he is such a great snorer. It may be annoying at times, but it's something I've come to love about him. He can go from being awake to deep, snoring sleep in minutes (or seconds).
Enduring - He's the most patient person I know!

Also linking over to these blog hops:

Marriage Challenge @ Women Living Well 
 Wifey Wednesday @ To Love, Honor and Vacuum
JamWithMe Thursdays @ Faith Barista Jam

Almost Friday Thursday Blog hop @ Satisfaction Through Christ